This is part of a sponsored collaboration with ViveMejor and Current. However, all opinions expressed are my own.
While kids are learning algebra and science most kids don’t learn financial skills at school even though money management is a vital skill that they will be using every day in their adult life. This is why it’s so important for parents to teach tweens and teens how to responsibly manage their money.
My daughter has some money she got for Christmas presents and from helping me out with the blog. She does small jobs like helping increase my Twitter and Instagram following and makes money that way. As a middle schooler, I decided it was time for her to start learning how credit and debit cards work and use this opportunity to teach her about financial literacy. We got her a Current debit card and we are really amazed at how much having the card has motivated her. Having a debit card not only makes things easier for us but it makes her feel more independent and she now wants to learn more about managing her finances. Current makes many things like saving so much easier for her. And she had so much fun and felt so grown up shopping with her Christmas money and learning to spend responsibly by choosing the best deals and comparing prices.
Here are a few ways in which you can teach your teen to manage their money responsibly.
Involve your child in your financial decisions. Many parents don’t feel comfortable discussing their financial situation and decisions with their kids but it’s important for kids to learn about responsible spending, saving, borrowing and investing at home. Use everyday situations to teach kids. Share how you budget and save for that family vacation or how you broker a better deal while buying a car. As their skills improve give them challenges so they can actively participate in their own finances like researching online to find a more affordable cell phone plan or calculating the monthly cost of owning a car or looking for the best deals when shopping at a store.
Create a budget: Creating a budget and sticking to it is a lesson that is important to learn from a young age. Create a budget together with your teen and include their income from allowance and money they earn from jobs and chores, include their expenses like paying for their cell phone or going to the movies and help them set saving goals for bigger expenses. Get together with your teen every few weeks and teach them about the importance of tracking their expenses and staying within their budget.
Teach your child to set financial goals: Help your child set realistic financial goals, whether it’s saving for a new tablet or for their college fund. Create a written plan to help them reach those financial goals by taking steps like saving a certain amount of their monthly allowance or finding new ways to earn money to reach their goal.
Give your child the right tools to learn financial literacy. There are many tools out there that make budgeting, saving and investing easier to understand and manage for young people. We recently got my daughter her first debit card. We chose Current because it combines a free debit card with a mobile app. Through the app you can transfer money into the card. One of the most useful benefits is being able to automate allowances with just a few clicks and having the option to set up and reward chores. You can put spending control in place and the app even gives you real-time alerts when your child spends money so that you know where the money is going. She’s been using Current for a couple of weeks and being able to manage her own money and pay for everything independently with her own debit card has given her a great sense of independence and she is already showing more interest in managing her money in a more responsible way.
Let teenagers learn from their own financial mistakes. It’s important to teach kids about responsible spending and delayed gratification but it’s also important to let them make their own mistakes. If your teenager spends all of their allowance quickly they will be left with no money for the rest of the week or month.This may be hard to do for many parents. Living through those small financial mistakes will teach them lessons on responsible spending and budgeting that will stick with them and may prevent them from making more serious money mistakes in adulthood.
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This is such a great idea. I started doing something similar for my, now 19-year-old, but I totally see the value.
P.S., I like how you peppered in pictures of your daughter. It helped bring the story to life. Good job!
This is really great to teach them as they grow because at the end of it all they end up learning how to deal and budget with their own money once they start earning some.
Your daughter is shopping at Justice. I know this, because my daughter LOVES that store 😉 I love the idea of this card so she can’t go nuts in there because trust me, she gets to $100 in a matter of minutes.
I learnt a lot about finance from my parents, and I am so glad they took the time to teach me as well as they did. I have been on the wrong side of it after having my ID stolen and it was so stressful, I can’t imagine having ended up in all the debt off my own back.
My teen is oblivious but I’m afraid she will learn the hard way. I have however showed, discussed and talked about money with my other kids.
I love this so much….words cannot even describe how much I love this! It is so easy to just give in and buy them everything but teaching them financial responsibility is such a huge part of parenting!
I think kids should know how to budget. The parents will be there to support and teach the child to set feasible financial goals. I think that’s the two most critical steps.
I don’t think I ever were careless as a kid. I quickly started to make my own money baby sitting and I was spending a lot of it but still making sure i’d never be in trouble.
Great post! it’s so important that our teens are taught real life lessons about money and finance, and not just education subjects!
This is so important! We do this at my school, and I taught a whole course in it! It is sometimes shocking how little kids know about how to budget/make decisions involving money!
Such an important topic, never thought about it! My son is 9, so I think he’s too small for financial independence; however we discuss with him finances and house budgets all the time
I wish I was tough this when I was younger. I had a rough time starting out on my own.
These are great tips! I was never taught about financial independence growing up – I think my parents just expected me to think for myself and learn from my mistakes. I still don’t know how to budget til this day. hahah YIKES!
I love that you’re teaching your daughter about financial independence. All these tools and guidance are going to help her so much when she gets older. Just amazing.
Teaching teenagers to be financial independence is a great idea. It is a great start to becoming an adult. Thanks for sharing.
Great post. I will be needing these tips in about two years. 😀
These are great ideas to teach kids. And I love you have found a way for your daughter to get involved with what you do and earn some money at the same time. I think teaching them the value of work is so important.
Such a great post. We are also currently looking into opening a bank account for our daughter. She is also making money doing some jobs here and there and has her holiday money saved up. We, as parents, discuss finances with our girls. What is pertinent, nothing that would worry them too much, but definitely things that can help them make wise money decisions as they grow.
I love this idea. I have been considering doing something similar to my daughter. Right now she just saves her money in her piggy back but I love the idea of her having her own card to help prepare her. Great job!